Clueless People

Clueless idiots, I mean, people, just piss me off sometimes.

Mostly because the words I would use to give them a clue would hurt their feelings worse than what they did to hurt mine.

Everybody knows that you never, ever, ever openly talk to the ex-wife in public hearing of the new wife, right? Especially not the Senior Chief's ex-wife.

We have one particular relative who just for some reason wants to be all disgustingly nice to the ex-wife...on Facebook.

So, Army boy just got back to the states and managed to make it to Texas for a family reunion, which was cool.

But here's this relative posting that he looks good, and he needs to improve his communication skills. AND that he can't wait to visit her (the ex-wife).

What? Get the hell out. First of all, I take extreme offense at the fact that she insulted him trying to be nice to someone who, from all accounts that I've heard, wasn't very nice to her.

Second of all, who is she to volunteer him to visit anyone? Ok, so we did kind of promise he might be able to go down to Pensacola to hang with his best friend...but that's way different.

Seriously though, couldn't she have wrote all that stuff in a private communication? And who the hell is she to say he needs to communicate better? I don't have too much of a problem with his communications skills and I RAISED HIM..not the one who was getting her ass kissed.

I just don't get it. The ex-wife doesn't have any claim to him as far as I'm concerned.

Not only was she a shitty mother...she never did anything to help raise them in any kind of way. All she did was make things harder and let me tell ya, if she'd have been a man, she'd have been in jail for not paying child support. It kind of tells ya what a shitty mother is that the Senior Chief got custody in that day and age.

I am excited to see him at the end of the month, though. He looks thin and could use some fattening up. God knows he won't get that at the ex-wife's ...not only can't she cook, but she flat out refused to cook.

Like I said, ignorant people just piss me off and I totally don't understand why the attempt is even being made to speak to her, let alone nice and promising her stuff that probably won't happen. Well, he might visit...for a day. Two weeks he'll be HOME though.

So there.